Money lessons I learned from my parents

Yesterday, my house was a complete and utter mess. The dishes had piled up, and the kitchen counters were cluttered with spices and groceries. The recycling was overflowing. UGH! Both Mr. Cents and I had several busy weeks at work, and the state of our house certainly reflected it. I had to get started on this mess. I scrubbed, dusted, sorted, tossed, vacuumed, and finally put things away. The house is starting to look like adults live here now.

Things my parents taught me about saving money and getting out of debt
Things my parents taught me about money that I wish I had paid attention to earlier.

My whole family will be here for the 4th of July which prompted my cleaning-spree.  Yesterday morning, my father called me to hash out a plan for this weekend’s visit. After talking logistics, I asked him about his newly found freedom from working. My father recently retired from the workforce after a decades as an engineer. He said he was enjoying staying at home and didn’t miss it. He talked about retirement savings, throwing around Warren Buffett quotes, and told me to make sure to use index funds! None of those fancy actively invested funds with expensive fees. Nope, those are just a waste of money!

Things my parents taught me about saving money and getting out of debt.
My dad would probably not be this coordinated.

It always amuses me that my dad likes to talk about saving for retirement. My parents never really talked about money when I was a kid. It was considered impolite to discuss things like salaries and how much debt you had. I remember the first time my dad told me how much he made (I didn’t ask him to!). We were discussing how his company recruited engineers and the salary ranges from starting to senior engineers. He visibly squirmed in his seat, very reluctantly told me his salary, and then asked me not to repeat it to anyone. My mother doesn’t talk about her salary either.

While neither of my parents like to discuss their income, they did have good spending/saving habits that I noticed even at a young age. My father always attacked debt with a vengeance. He hated debt and always told us to stay away from it. My parents paid off all of our family cars quickly, and paid off the house early. They saved money for when they needed it. When emergencies came up, we had the money to cover it.

Things my parents taught me about saving money and getting out of debt.
I SWEAR my dad’s cooking never looked this good. I would totally eat all of this.

My mother cooked at home, and we rarely ate out minus the occasional fast food meal while running errands. When my mom had to go out of town, my dad would “cook” dinner. His meals usually contained multiple varieties of beans or, his specialty, kielbasa sausage with fried peppers and onions. My friends, his food was….not good….at least not to little kids. My sisters and I would eye the kitchen warily, and when we realized he was making dinner, we usually asked (begged) to go to Grandma’s house. She would make us pizza if we asked, and, if we were good, grandpa made us milk shakes. Plus grandma had cable tv which meant cartoons! Another luxury my parents refused to get.

Looking back on it now, I realize how lucky I am. I had parents who figured out how to spend and save their money wisely. We always had everything we needed. I wish I had paid closer attention to how my parents used their money and applied their principles to my own finances earlier. I left college with lots of student loan debt. I’ve always had a car payment. We eat out way more than we should. Usually because we get busy at work and everything else kinda gets neglected (see first paragraph).

Things my parents taught me about saving money and getting out of debt.
I hope I’m as smart with my money as my parents are.

To be fair, Mr. Cents and I made some mistakes, but are working to rectify them. It’s working slowly but surely. Most recently, we paid off our water softener which was NOT cheap. We pay extra towards our mortgage and car payment every month. We could actually pay off my car right now but decided to wait until we recover from the water softener. We’ve made a pointed effort to reduce the number of times we go out to eat and cook more at home. Ironically, we actually fried up some German sausages this week so maybe my dad’s food wasn’t as terrible as I remember.

I’m proud of what my parents accomplished. I have two wonderful examples of financial savviness in my life. Not everyone has this, and I’m grateful. I’m also happy that my father is enjoying a well-earned retirement, and I’m sure my mom will join him soon. Hopefully the Cents family will crush this whole retirement thing as well as my dad has.

Do you have someone in your life that crushed it financially?

Top 4 resources for new bloggers

Starting a blog can be an exciting, but challenging endeavor. You have creative ideas that you want to share with others, but learning how to implement those ideas onto a blog can be difficult. I am experiencing this personally and would like to share some of the best resources I’ve come across since I started blogging a few months ago.

Why I started a blog:

A few months ago, I decided to start a personal finance blog that would document our journey to get out of debt and achieve financial freedom. I also wanted to share some of the tools and techniques I use to save money on purchases like groceries, clothes, and vacations. All of the things I write about I have tried and have been mostly successful (with the exception of this vacation fail).

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I am not an expert on blogging. I have never worked on a webpage before, and, minus daily email, I’ve never written about anything that wasn’t technical (aka boring facts and figures). All of this has been a learning curve for me. To be completely fair, I really like learning about this stuff! Not just about blogging, but how websites work or how to engage via social media.

Resources I’ve found both helpful and educational:

There is plenty of informative, free/cheap education out there that can cut through some of the mystery behind starting a blog. As a new blogger, it is easy to get overwhelmed with all of the choices. While I am still learning, I found these resources to be very helpful.

Create bright, colorful Pinterest Pins:

I had no idea that pinterest could be so important to a blog. I thought it was just an app that you use to find delicious recipes. Not so! Pinterest can be a very good source of traffic to your blog so don’t ignore it. One of the resources I used to get started in Pinterest is Kristen Larson’s blog, Believe in a Budget. She is a fantastic example of how to succeed in blogging. Her side business of becoming a Pinterest expert has paid off well, and she shares some of her knowledge in this free Pinterest Presence Mini Course. I took it a couple of weeks ago, and was surprised at how educational it was. She shows you how to create eye-catching pins from stock photos. My first few attempts weren’t great but I’m getting better with practice (at least, I think)!

Learn how to leverage social media and track metrics on your blog:

I check Udemy periodically for courses that are relevant for blogging. There are a lot of them out there so I try to stick with ones that have high ratings. During one of their recent sales, I stumbled across this course, “Build a Successful Blog: Traffic and Monetization Level 2”. The instructor is a full-time Amazon seller who has successfully implemented blogs, websites and other side hustles. She covers the basics on leveraging social media to drive traffic to your blog and how to set up tools to keep track of your website’s metrics. I learned how to setup google analytics and about other tools and websites you can use to grow your following. Some of these tools I’d never heard of before. Udemy has this course on sale for $10. Totally worth it for beginners. (Note: If it’s not on sale when you read this, watch it for a while. Udemy has sales at least a few of times a year.)

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Learn how to write:

As I said earlier, I’m not a writer by trade. Engineering school does not prepare geeks like myself with the skills to communicate well. With the exception of a few British Lit classes, all of my writing was focused on conveying technical information.

Here is another Udemy course that I bought for $10 after seeing a list on Business Insider (an article I tweeted). Full disclosure, I haven’t actually finished this course yet, but I continually find myself pausing and thinking about what the instructor is saying. That is a good sign! If you need a quick education on how to thoughtfully convey your ideas through writing, check out this Udemy course, “Ninja Writing: The Four Levels Of Writing Mastery”. So far, it has helped me organize my thoughts into less of a jumbled mess.

Use Free Stock Pictures:

Looking at a blog post with tons of text and no pictures is boring. Adding images to your posts can break up long, boring paragraphs and add depth to your posts. Not using images is a mistake I made when I started and one I am trying to correct. However, do not use other people’s photos without permission! That is a quick and easy way to get yourself into trouble. Instead, use free stock photos out there like Pexels. They offer free stock photos that you can copy and manipulate without a license or sourcing. They work pretty nicely with Believe in a Budget’s free pinterest course.

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Starting a blog can be so much fun, and I hope these 4 resources are as helpful for you as they were for me! There are a lot of other free/cheap resources out there that I might not have heard about so please leave a comment if you have one in mind. Thanks for stopping by and happy blogging!

Top 5 financial podcasts – My favorites

A couple of years ago, my husband and I decided that we were going to have to make some dramatic changes if we were going to get our financial lives together, a goal we are still working on. But we needed schoolin’…So we turned to the internet and looked for financial advice on how to get out of debt.

After I stumbled upon the personal finance blog scene, I began looking into other ways to learn about all things personal finance. Since I have a long commute, I did some research into podcasts that I could listen to on my way to and from work. I came across a few that I really enjoyed and continue to listen to today.

There are couple of things that I look for in a podcast. One, I like lots of interviews. Personal finance is such a broad topic, and there are a ton of different ways to succeed. Hearing about the different ways others achieved financial independence, either by starting their own side business or making smart investments, is important for me to stay motivated. I even like hearing about how people have failed in their finances. The financial independence world seems more relatable when I hear about a blogger who had issues with saving money or struggled with student loan debt. Two, I prefer podcasts that have at least a second person to talk to when they aren’t interviewing someone. It feels weird to me when a single person just talks. Don’t know why.

Top 5 personal finance podcasts that I listen to the most. Learn about retirement, 401k, saving money, paying off debt, etc.
A list of my favorite podcasts that talk about personal finance and financial independence.

Here is a list of my favorite personal finance podcasts in no particular order:

Martinis and Your Money – check it out here.

I’ve been listening to Martinis and Your Money for about a year now. Shannon McLay has interesting guests including other entrepenuaers, bloggers, and authors. A couple of months ago, she had a guest who talked about her delicious-sounding custom cake business and some of the challenges she faced spinning her business up. This one really sticks out in my mind…probably because it was about cake AND money. Also, about once a month, Martinis and Your Money features a Happy Hour episode which includes other financial independence bloggers. I love these episodes! Very entertaining on my long commute to work. I wish Happy Hour was featured more often.

The Mad Fientist – check it out here.

The Mad Fientist is a classic and was probably the first financial podcast I listened to. I think I blasted through all of his episodes in a few months. There is usually quite a chunk of time between episodes although they are worth the wait. He never fails to score sweet interviews with amazing guests. Plus, he’s technically already retired from the rat race, so its nice to hear from someone who has actually achieved this early retirement thing.

Mo’ Money Podcast – check it out here

I accidentally stumbled across Canadian-based, Jessica Moorhouse’s podcast after I had binged on my regular podcasts and ran out of episodes. I am so glad I did. I learned about the second hand economy, side hustles, and other money saving techniques. She’s cheerful and upbeat which makes her episodes very not boring (important on a long commute), and she usually introduces guests I’ve never heard of before. There are a few podcast/blogs I’ve started following after listening to their interviews on her show.

The Money Guy Show – check it out here

These guys are honest-to-goodness professional accountants and investment advisors based in Nashville. I enjoy listening to their thoughts on investment funds, retirement, taxes, etc. They have educated me! Totally learned some stuff I never would have otherwise. For example, you can actually invest in an IRA in 2018 and have it count towards your 2017 taxes up until Tax Day. I had no idea! Both Brian and Bo offer insightful personal finance advice, all served with a southern drawl, ya’ll.

Millennial Money Minutes – Check it out here and here.

This podcast is interesting because its quick and easy, and features 2 personal finance bloggers in one podcast. Grant and Matt offer personal finance advice in episodes that are 5 minutes or less with the occasional 20 minute episode. They typically talk about everything personal finance related like what is minimalism to how to get a raise at work. Not the kind of podcast I usually listen to and at first, I had to get used to their format. I’m glad I did. I have to save them up so I can binge-listen during my commute.

These are just a few that I listen to, but easily the ones I listen to the most. What about you? Do you have favorite podcasts that you listen to regularly? What do you like about them?